Take up HER hobby….
The late comedian Redd Foxx used to tell the story about the time he and his wife were having problems, due to his career. His bride felt that he wasn’t really interested in her activities outside the home, so he went to a psychologist for some advice.
After hearing his story, the doctor said, “Show some interest in what SHE likes. Find out what she enjoys MOST, and enthusiastically pursue it as YOUR avocation, too!”
Redd promised that he would.
About 3 months later, Redd returned to the psychologist and said, “It just isn’t working out, Doc. I found out what she enjoys most, and although I really tried to get into it, I just don’t like cock sucking.”